When I’m feeling insecure about my body, sometimes it helps me to post photos where I am really leaning in to the parts I am uncomfortable with. For this I pulled up my thesaurus, first looking for words about facing yourself head-on, but also looking up synonyms for fat. When I saw “well upholstered” it made me giggle and kind of turned my mood around a bit. So I’m using it. Also applies to the mattress, I guess.